For lasting Relationship !

If you fight like married couples,

talk like best friends,

flirt like lovers 

& protect each other like siblings.

LOve or Hate !

Love me or hate me, both are in my favor.

If you love me, I'll always be in your heart,

If you hate me, I'll always be in your mind.

Dealing with problems positively

Five Reasons why Allah uses problems. These reasons will help you deal with your problems more positively:
The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you – depending on how you respond to them. Unfortunately, most people fail to see how Allah wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring.

Here are five ways Allah wants to use the problems in your life:

1. Allah uses problems to DIRECT you.
Sometimes Allah must light a fire under you to get you moving. Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change. Is Allah trying to get your attention? “Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways.”

2. Allah uses problems to INSPECT you.
People are like tea bags…if you want to know what’s inside them, just drop them into hot ever water! Has Allah tested your faith with a problem What do problems reveal about
you? “When you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this will give you patience.”

3. Allah uses problems to CORRECT you.
Some lessons we learn only through pain and failure. It’s likely that as a child your parents told you not to touch a hot stove…. But you probably learned by being burned. Sometimes we only learn the value of something… health, money, a relationship.. .. by losing it. “It was the best thing that could have happened to me, for it taught me to pay attention to your laws.”

4. Allah uses problems to PROTECT you.
A problem can be a blessing in disguise if it prevents you from being harmed by something more serious.. Last year a friend was fired for refusing to do something unethical that his boss had asked him to do. His unemployment was a problem – but it saved him from being convicted and sent to prison a year later when management’s actions were eventually discovered. “You intended to harm me, but Allah intended it for good…”

5. Allah uses problems to PERFECT you.
Problems, when responded to correctly, are character builders. Allah is far more interested in your character than your comfort. Your relationship to Allah and your character are the only two things you’re going to take with you into eternity. “We can rejoice when we run into problems…they help us learn to be patient.. And patience develops strength of character in us and helps us trust Allah more each time we use it until finally our hope and faith are strong and steady.”
Here’s the point:

Allah is at work in your life – even when you do not recognize it or understand it.
But it’s much easier and profitable when you cooperate with Him.


“Success can be measured not only in achievements, but in lessons learned, lives touched and moments shared along the way”

Dedicated to all father who work day and night for the comfort of their family and in this journey forget to live his own life. They find happiness in the happiness of their family who often take him for granted. You realize the real worth only the day you lose him. Make your dad feel wanted and loved now if you are lucky to have him, for he deserves your love and appreciation.

 

"First he was dying to finish his high school and to start college,

He was then dying to finish college and start working.

Then he was dying to get married and have kids.

And then he was dying for his children,

to grow old enough so they could do their job.

And then he was dying to get retire"

And Then He DIED !

In between all this he forgot something

HE FORGOT 2 LIVE

His name is a FATHER !

 Appreciate him in every moment of your life

Empty Sms

 Try sending empty sms to your loved one for people says,
 " empty messages also look adorable if U like the sender"

Relationships Matters

Sms on relationship

Relationships are like stapling papers together

Easy to attach but difficult  to detach 

and even if detached they leave a mark.....!!!

Face the problems !!

Sometimes when things get tough and it seems you cant even breathe then the only thought in your mind is to give up and not to look back..... but life is not that simple! Giving up does not solve problems, only facing them squarely helps to overcome them but then I pray to God if he has given me problems then he should give me courage to face them and solve them.As Henry David quotes, 'the price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it.'