Loneliness !!

The walls of loneliness !

The Walls we Build around Us to keep out  the SADNESS also keeps out the Joy !

مت کر خاک کے پُتلے پر غرور و بے نیازی اتنی

خود  کو خودی میں جھانک کر دیکھ تُجھ میں رکھا کیا ہے                                                  

          

Mut kar khak kay putlay pur gharur o bay niazi itni

Khud ko khudi mein jhank kar dekh tujh mein rakha kia hai

Silence and Smile - two powerful tools!

     Silence and Smile are two powerful  tools.

Smile is the way to solve many problems

and 

Silence is the way to avoid many problems.

Take Care !!

IT   FEELS   GOOD

TO   HEAR   SOMEONE   SAY:

   

' take care '

BUT  IT  FEELS 

SO   MUCH   BETTER  TO

 HEAR   SOMEONE     SAY:

          

' I will take care of you '

A Tear and a Smile!

A Tear And A Smile
  I would not exchange the sorrows of my heart
For the joys of the multitude.
And I would not have the tears that sadness makes
To flow from my every part turn into laughter.

I would that my life remain a tear and a smile.

A tear to purify my heart and give me understanding
Of life's secrets and hidden things.
A smile to draw me nigh to the sons of my kind and
To be a symbol of my glorification of the gods.

A tear to unite me with those of broken heart;
A smile to be a sign of my joy in existence.

I would rather that I died in yearning and longing than that I live Weary and despairing.

I want the hunger for love and beauty to be in the
Depths of my spirit,for I have seen those who are
Satisfied the most wretched of people.
I have heard the sigh of those in yearning and Longing, and it is sweeter than the sweetest melody.

With evening's coming the flower folds her petals
And sleeps, embracingher longing.
At morning's approach she opens her lips to meet
The sun's kiss.

The life of a flower is longing and fulfilment.
A tear and a smile.

The waters of the sea become vapor and rise and come
Together and area cloud.

And the cloud floats above the hills and valleys
Until it meets the gentle breeze, then falls weeping
To the fields and joins with brooks and rivers to Return to the sea, its home.

The life of clouds is a parting and a meeting.
A tear and a smile.

And so does the spirit become separated from
The greater spirit to move in the world of matter
And pass as a cloud over the mountain of sorrow
And the plains of joy to meet the breeze of death
And return whence it came.

To the ocean of Love and Beauty----to God.


Khalil Gibran

Roaming Cloud

Roaming Cloud
I am like a remnant of a cloud of autumn
uselessly roaming in the sky, O my sun ever-glorious!
Thy touch has not yet melted my vapor,
making me one with thy light,
and thus I count months and years separated from thee.

If this be thy wish and if this be thy play,
then take this fleeting emptiness of mine,
paint it with colors, gild it with gold,
float it on the wanton wind and spread it in varied wonders.

And again when it shall be thy wish to end this play at night,
I shall melt and vanish away in the dark,
or it may be in a smile of the white morning,
in a coolness of purity transparent. 


By: RabindranathTagore

Friend

Art thou abroad on this stormy night
on thy journey of love, my friend?
The sky groans like one in despair.

I have no sleep tonight.
Ever and again I open my door and look out on
the darkness, my friend!

I can see nothing before me.
I wonder where lies thy path!

By what dim shore of the ink-black river,
by what far edge of the frowning forest,
through what mazy depth of gloom art thou threading
thy course to come to me, my friend? 

By:Rabindranath Tagore

For lasting Relationship !

If you fight like married couples,

talk like best friends,

flirt like lovers 

& protect each other like siblings.

LOve or Hate !

Love me or hate me, both are in my favor.

If you love me, I'll always be in your heart,

If you hate me, I'll always be in your mind.

Dealing with problems positively

Five Reasons why Allah uses problems. These reasons will help you deal with your problems more positively:
The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you – depending on how you respond to them. Unfortunately, most people fail to see how Allah wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring.

Here are five ways Allah wants to use the problems in your life:

1. Allah uses problems to DIRECT you.
Sometimes Allah must light a fire under you to get you moving. Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change. Is Allah trying to get your attention? “Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways.”

2. Allah uses problems to INSPECT you.
People are like tea bags…if you want to know what’s inside them, just drop them into hot ever water! Has Allah tested your faith with a problem What do problems reveal about
you? “When you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this will give you patience.”

3. Allah uses problems to CORRECT you.
Some lessons we learn only through pain and failure. It’s likely that as a child your parents told you not to touch a hot stove…. But you probably learned by being burned. Sometimes we only learn the value of something… health, money, a relationship.. .. by losing it. “It was the best thing that could have happened to me, for it taught me to pay attention to your laws.”

4. Allah uses problems to PROTECT you.
A problem can be a blessing in disguise if it prevents you from being harmed by something more serious.. Last year a friend was fired for refusing to do something unethical that his boss had asked him to do. His unemployment was a problem – but it saved him from being convicted and sent to prison a year later when management’s actions were eventually discovered. “You intended to harm me, but Allah intended it for good…”

5. Allah uses problems to PERFECT you.
Problems, when responded to correctly, are character builders. Allah is far more interested in your character than your comfort. Your relationship to Allah and your character are the only two things you’re going to take with you into eternity. “We can rejoice when we run into problems…they help us learn to be patient.. And patience develops strength of character in us and helps us trust Allah more each time we use it until finally our hope and faith are strong and steady.”
Here’s the point:

Allah is at work in your life – even when you do not recognize it or understand it.
But it’s much easier and profitable when you cooperate with Him.


“Success can be measured not only in achievements, but in lessons learned, lives touched and moments shared along the way”

Dedicated to all father who work day and night for the comfort of their family and in this journey forget to live his own life. They find happiness in the happiness of their family who often take him for granted. You realize the real worth only the day you lose him. Make your dad feel wanted and loved now if you are lucky to have him, for he deserves your love and appreciation.

 

"First he was dying to finish his high school and to start college,

He was then dying to finish college and start working.

Then he was dying to get married and have kids.

And then he was dying for his children,

to grow old enough so they could do their job.

And then he was dying to get retire"

And Then He DIED !

In between all this he forgot something

HE FORGOT 2 LIVE

His name is a FATHER !

 Appreciate him in every moment of your life

Empty Sms

 Try sending empty sms to your loved one for people says,
 " empty messages also look adorable if U like the sender"

Relationships Matters

Sms on relationship

Relationships are like stapling papers together

Easy to attach but difficult  to detach 

and even if detached they leave a mark.....!!!

Face the problems !!

Sometimes when things get tough and it seems you cant even breathe then the only thought in your mind is to give up and not to look back..... but life is not that simple! Giving up does not solve problems, only facing them squarely helps to overcome them but then I pray to God if he has given me problems then he should give me courage to face them and solve them.As Henry David quotes, 'the price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it.'

Seek long term happiness....... find the difference between joy and pleasure

As we move along the path in life, in search of many things, we often make the mistake of seeking short term pleasure at the cost of long term joy.  

Many people confuse the two. Imagine going out to a gourmet restaurant every night for a month and feasting on great meals and luscious desserts. This is pleasure. But look at yourself in the mirror after that month and I don't think you will be so joyous. As joy is much deeper, it is being deeply satisfied with an accomplishment. If instead, you had put together a serious program, of eating healthy and fitness - and worked on it for 6 months - you would actually feel the joy of accomplishment and joy of where you are at.

Pleasure generally requires no effort. Joy on the other hand, has an aspect of pleasure, but its core existence is connected to working hard and succeeding at something. Joy is the feeling after you have learned a new language or have elevated yourself spiritually. Pleasure is not something negative at all. It is a gift we have been given. We just have to learn moderation and to appreciate true vs. passing values.

               We push hard in life and we see real joy, the essence of life !

Doubt sees the obstacles.
Faith sees the way.

Doubt sees the darkest night.
Faith sees the day.

Doubt dreads to take a step.
Faith soars on high.

Doubt questions "Who believes"?
Faith answers "I".

Live your life with love !

An inspiring story that shows the true meaning of living a life and winning paradise for yourself.

‘Why is it that some people can resolve the most complicated problems really easily, whilst others agonize over every tiny crisis and end up drowning in a glass of water?’ I asked.

Ramesh replied by telling the following story:

‘Once upon a time, there was a man who had been the soul of kindness all his life.
When he died, everyone assumed that he would go straight to Heaven, for the only possible place for a good man like him was Paradise.

The man wasn’t particularly bothered about going to Heaven, but that was where he went.
Now in those days, service in heaven was not all that it might be.
The reception desk was extremely inefficient, and the girl who received him gave only a cursory glance through the index cards before her and when she couldn’t find the man’s name, she sent him straight to Hell.

And in Hell no one asks to check your badge or your invitation, for anyone who turns up is invited in. The man entered and stayed.

Some days later, Lucifer stormed up to the gates of Heaven to demand an explanation from St Peter.
“What you’re doing is pure terrorism!” he said. “You sent that man down into Hell, and he’s completely undermining me! Right from the start, there he was listening to people, looking them in the eye, talking to them.

“And now everyone’s sharing their feelings and hugging and kissing. That’s not the sort of thing I want in Hell! Please, let him into Heaven!’

When Ramesh had finished telling the story, he looked at me fondly and said:

‘Live your life with so much love in your heart that if, by mistake, you were sent to Hell, the Devil himself would deliver you up to Paradise.’

 (Taken from the Paulo Cohelo's short stories)
 

Realization counts !

To realize
the value of a  sister/brother
ask someone
who doesn't  have one.

To realize
the value of ten  years:
ask a newly
divorced  couple.

To realize
the value of four  years:
ask a graduate.

To  realize
the value of one year:
ask a  student who
has failed a final  exam.

To realize
the value of nine  months:
ask a mother  who has just given birth.

To  realize
the value of one minute:
ask a  person
who has missed the train, bus or  plane.

To realize
the value of  one-second:
ask a person
who has survived  an accident.

Time waits for no  one.
treasure every moment you  have.

You will treasure it even more  when
you can share it with someone  special.

To realize the value of a friend  or family member:
lose one.

Remember.... 
Hold on tight to  the ones you love!

 
     

 

Precious gift for precious mother !

Mother's are precious, so the gift we should choose to give them should also be precious one. Now days the most precious thing is time so how about giving your mother the precious gift of time not just on Mother' day but each day.

Make it a habit to take out some time each day especially for the mother, call it 'Me and My Mother's Time.'

If you cant meet  her in person , you can call her up and a ask her about her day's routine. It will surely make her day.

Once in while You can take her out for lunch or dinner. Remember she was and will always remain your first Love.

You can spend some quality time with your mother going through family album. She would surly love going down the memory lane,sharing some golden moments about her past life. Don't miss that twinkle in her eyes as she speaks of her golden memories with her special ones.

Don't forget to give your mother your best smile. Parents in their old age looks up to their child's face just for a glimpse of little love. You can show it through your smile, believe  me its valuable gift for them which they treasure for life.

Lastly don't forget to give your mother a hug and say I LOVE YOU , for its magic always make a person happy and help them to live through the anxieties of old age.

A Tribute to Mothers Love !

No matter what culture, country or race we talk about, Mother's Love reign supreme in all without any doubt !

How does a child know about  the mother's  love. Does she keep telling  the child and reminding him about her love ....... the answer is NO !

The child know her love because he can feel Her LOVE in all her actions and gestures. Her warmth, concern and body language speaks of her love.  She doesn't have a  special day to celebrate love for her kids, she is available 365 days for her kids showering love and time 24/7 without asking anything in return.

Mother's love set an example for love in general. No matter who you love, love selflessly, 365 days, not only on special occasion. They should be in your thought and prayers all the time and you should be available for them 24/7 without any appointment. And foremost when you love someone love selflessly without asking for any returns.

Lastly no matter whom you love, don't just tell them that you love them, show them through your actions, gestures, warmth and body language that You really mean that You love them!!

                        A salute to all the mothers out there whose love has no limits !

Mothers' are Special Gift of God !!

A Newborn's Conversation with God……..

A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow,
but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"

God said, "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."
 
The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything 
but sing and smile to be happy."

God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you.
And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."

Again the small child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand

when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"

God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."
 
"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"

God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach 
 you how to pray."

"Who will protect me?"

God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life."
"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."

God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way 

to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."
 
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."

"God said, You will simply call her...........Mother !! "

Goodnight message !

Goodnight sms, the last thought in my mind.....

A late night sms greeting does not only mean ‘goodnight’

It has a silent message saying….

You are my last thought before I fall asleep !